Affair Partner – Why You Don’t Deserve Any Sympathy

Are you having an affair with someone who is married wondering when they will leave their spouse? Maybe your affair has finished leaving you heartbroken? If you are, one thing you don’t deserve is sympathy.

What are you doing by having an affair with a married partner? You are inserting yourself into a marriage, even a family and will forever be at least in the mind of one of the married couple.

You are creating memories with someone else’s spouse. Now and again they will think of you even though you are no longer together and the married couple have reconciled.

The chances when you are in your affair you are not thinking about the spouse they are betraying or the marriage you will more than likely break up.

The chances are that you are not thinking of the children they are betraying. Yes, their children they are betraying. I doubt you think that the time they spend with you, you are taking them away from their children. They should play with their children or read bedtime stories instead of being with you. The same children who are missing their mother or father.

And for what? There are no guarantees in your affair. It isn’t guaranteed they will leave their spouse for you. The words of love they tell are meaningless unless you are they are only told to you, and they are not. Do you have so little self-respect that you will happily have sex with somebody who is probably having sex with their spouse to cover their affair?

An unfaithful married spouse cannot be trusted or believed other than to put their needs first.

Your affair will come to light. It may be soon or in many years and when it does it will cause an intense trauma to the spouse they are betraying. It will cause trauma to the children they are betraying and they watch their parents’ marriage to implode and live their childhood travelling between parents. It will cause the parents of the cheating spouse to be ashamed of their child. It will cause them to lose friends, disgusted by their infidelity.

Do you get your selfishness now? Do you understand why infidelity is wrong? Do understand the lives you are affecting? Do you realise the hurt you are causing to so many people? People who you probably have never met.

No, of course, you don’t.

That is your failure. Your failure in morality. You didn’t need to go into that affair. You chose to. It was a choice. You could have backed away and nursed your broken heart from afar. You are responsible for your own actions. Your affair isn’t just on them.

I should have. Hell, my heart would never have gotten broken if I hadn’t gotten involved with her. I deserved everything I got and you will too.